Friendships & gifts

Friendships

Use /friendship request @member to send a request. Only the recipient can accept; requests expire after ten minutes and do not ping them. Each person can have up to 50 friends. Friendships follow you across servers and stay separate from family relationships.

/friendship show @member shows your shared card and milestones. /friendship list lists friends, and /friendship remove @member ends a friendship. Blocking with /friendship block @member prevents new requests and gifts, ends the friendship and cancels pending offers. Existing family blocks also prevent offers.

Gifts

Browse /gift list, then send /gift send @member flowers thanks for being here. Gifts use no currency. The recipient must choose Keep it before the gift appears in their collection; Pass declines or withdraws it. Offers expire after one day.

You can make five offers per UTC day, including declined or failed deliveries. Notes are public and limited to 180 characters. /gift collection list lists accepted keepsakes, and /gift collection remove ID removes one from your collection. Collections hold up to 100 gifts across servers.

Knowme

/knowme opens private setup for a five-question quiz. Choose your answers, let up to 25 friends join, then start. Each question lasts up to 25 seconds. Games expire after ten minutes or a bot restart. Answers are not saved to the database, but round reveals and scores remain in the Discord message. Only the host can end the game.

Friendship cards, lists, gift notes and collections are public replies in the channel where you use them. See General commands for all social controls.